Layers

great book named Layers by Sandi Patty, Christian singer.  My therapist recommended it and I think it is fabulous.  I have already recognized some of the layers and the reasons for them in my own life.  I think anyone who suffered abuse of any kind as a child should read this book.  Sandi Patty's childhood experience wasn't incest like mine but incredibly devastating for her.  I used to think some abuse was worse than others, like well you only got touched, not like raped.  However I now know that when your choices are taken away and you are powerless and anything bad is done, it deeply seers your soul.  It is not just the "what was done" but that it was done at all.